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Post by Cherise on Oct 29, 2003 16:37:01 GMT -5
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All right. This is something that has come to my attention, and I figure I am going to make it known and my opinion on it. So let me get this out in the open.
NEVER JUDGE A MUN BY THE CHARACTER.
I have seen this happen so many times. Numerous times. Countless times. Heck, it's even happened to me!
Let me tell you.
Just because I play a puerile slut with the attention span of a two year old, doesn't mean I am one.
I have been discriminated against for the actions of my character.
Yes, I understand that I am the deus. I understand I control Cherise.
But let me get things out in the open, that I as a mun take AP classes. I achieve a 4.0 GPA. I have a life outside of the computer, as I am active in Theatre and sports.
So yeah, sorry to burst everyone's bubble, but I don't sleep with every guy I see and act callow.
Please do NOT judge me by the character I play.
This goes for everyone.
Just because someone plays a character you may not particularly like, doesn't mean you should hold a grudge against the mun.
BE RESPECTFUL OF MUNS AND THEIR DECISIONS.
Anyway, just had to vent. Hope this clears things up.
<3 Christa / Cherise-mun
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Post by Kolava on Oct 29, 2003 17:53:16 GMT -5
Though I never regarded you with anything but respect no matter how...eccentric Cherise got, I must admit that I've seen such behavior displayed by others.
The escapism factor of RPing is ruined if a mun must fear what others will think of them whenever they develop a character.
Keep this in mind whenever Kolava is cynical or Cherise air-headed or Veedo lewd. (though few doubt the mun can relate to the char on that last one)
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Lady Desari
Noble 
Mistress of Ravenswood
"Trantz Ssinssrig Zaha Mal'rak"
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Post by Lady Desari on Oct 31, 2003 11:31:07 GMT -5
Christa...Thank you...I hope everyone realizes that if you judge a mun by the char...You may be missing out on a great person...Someone that in the end may become your best friend....
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Post by LadyGelinaGrey on Nov 1, 2003 3:11:25 GMT -5
Aye...I agree. Look at how I was judged by Lina's actions by Rel mun. I know alot of people don't like Gelina and that's fine. But though she has alot of my traits...I am not the b***h everyone thinks I am. I will say that I am guilty of judging a couple by their charrie and I will admit that I was sorely wrong. Take Gelina's soul bonded sister for example...Sareania...I judged the mun by Sareania's actions and set myself on not liking her. Months past and we talked again and I found that the person behind the mun was this fabulous woman named Karen. She is now one of my best friends IRL and I wouldn't have Gelina today if it weren't for her. So yes, please do not judge the person by their charrie, as my sister said...you may just miss out on someone wonderful. I was lucky, next time...you may not be.
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Lady Desari
Noble
Mistress of Ravenswood
"Trantz Ssinssrig Zaha Mal'rak"
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Post by Lady Desari on Nov 1, 2003 9:46:32 GMT -5
:: huggles her sister :: I luff yoooooooou...
To many people in this world are judged enough as it is...This is the one place where I feel like I am accepted for the person I am and the things I stand for...If you don't like me ir my char that is your buisness...Just remember...My guts are not here for you to love and nether are Desari's...I am here to play and have fun...
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Post by Cherise on Nov 1, 2003 12:24:29 GMT -5
B.B..B...ut.. I love your guts, Des! *___*! (And thanks for the example Lina-mun, I've had things like that happen to me too. Like Jessy. Four years ago my character Tea and her character Aden despised eachother, and I didn't like the mun. But soon enough, when Tea and Aden became better friends, I did with Jessy, and I was very, very wrong. Now Jessy & I are good friends, we've met eachother in real life, and it's just all good. So, the point in case? DISCRIMINATION ISH BAD.  ) |
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Post by LadyGelinaGrey on Nov 1, 2003 15:09:51 GMT -5
Aye...this is the one place where I have not hidden anything from anyone nor have I lied about who I am or what I do...or my beliefs. Everyone that I have met and have become friends with love me for who I am and they except all my faults. ::thanks the gods for Kyle on that one:: I don't think that there is any other place where you can be that way. It's not "normal" in society...they want you to be what they want..not what you want to be. ::stops and takes a breath:: Ok I am done babbling about this now... ::wavies::
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Post by Darius Lightblade on Nov 3, 2003 8:04:58 GMT -5
I agree about the statements made by cherise. I know i havent been on alot so not many of you know my character. I wish i knew some of you guys IRL but i doubt any of you live in NYC
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